Sometimes, there is a misunderstanding that disagreement in safe spaces makes a space unsafe. Or that we have to agree with everything that is said in order to make a space safe. The purpose of a safe space is to[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
What kills safety faster than anything else? Being dismissed, treated like a liar, pushed aside. There’re many reasons this can happen. Sometimes a story can threaten the worldview of the listener. For them to accept that something did happen, they[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Being alone helps my battery to recharge, but that usually comes at some risk to my safety. And don’t get me wrong – I do enjoy spending time with loved people. This is especially true when I feel safe with[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
This is probably one of the most important messages that I have for those who struggle to understand depression. If a depressed person can’t meet you, it’s a safety issue as well as an energy issue. I’ve been stuck at[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…